
I Thought I Knew My Mom. Then A Polaroid That Made Me Reconsider
A personal essay about the family secrets I discovered that helped me see my mom as a full person –– not just my mother –– and stop pushing her away.
Women’s Sex, Family Relationships
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I have proofread and copyedited novels, memoirs, and books of poetry. As a freelance copyeditor, I most recently edited Tolani Akinola’s novel Leave Your Mess at Home (Penguin Random House, April 2026).
Women’s Media Group Scholar (2025-2026).
The Academy for Teachers Early Career Fellowship (2024-2025).
National Council of Teachers of English (NCTE) English Language Arts Teacher Educator’s (ELATE) Early Career Presenter Scholarship (2023).
As author, unless indicated otherwise.
I explore how I experienced sexual compliance the first time I had sex. I spoke to sex therapists and consulted peer-reviewed studies to break down what sexual compliance is, how society conditions women to say yes to sex they don’t want, and how women can foster sexual self-agency.
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