Jacqueline LeKachman

I am a New York-based journalist and editor who writes about family, sex, and other things that keep me up at night. My personal essays and reported pieces have appeared in The Washington Post, The Guardian, HuffPost, Women’s Health, Business Insider, Newsweek, Salon, Slate, SUCCESS, WIRED, and more. I pursued my MFA in creative nonfiction at The New School and my master’s in journalism at the Craig Newmark Graduate School of Journalism at CUNY. 

 

My memoir-in-progress explores how my mom’s compulsive hoarding, my early introductions to intimacy, and losing my virginity through sexual compliance led me to become celibate for over two years. During that time, I discovered the long-hidden secrets that had shaped my family, and I realized that in giving up sex, I had finally found what I had lacked for most of my life: understanding and agency.

 

I also plan to write a coming-of-age YA novel, Through the Mess, in which seventeen-year-old Reese struggles to connect with her mother due to her mom’s compulsive hoarding. No one, not even Reese’s older sister, understands the shame Reese feels about her disastrous Cleveland home and tense relationship with her mom. Then a phone call with Reese’s aunt reveals a family secret that makes Reese question everything she thought she knew about her mother. Drawing inspiration from my life, Through the Mess is a story about breaking down the barriers between parents and children and finding a way back to each other despite life’s messes. 

 

Before becoming a full-time writer, I was a New York City public high school English and creative writing teacher. Now, when I’m not writing, I’m editing for freelance clients and as a freelance copyeditor at Penguin Random House.

 

You can read all my writing here: https://linktr.ee/jacqueline.lekachman.writing

info Subjects

General

Arts & Culture
Business & Finance
Health & Medicine
Lifestyle
Parenting
Wellness
Technology
Education

Specialties

Women’s Sex, Family Relationships

notepad Skills

  • Articles
  • Books
  • Coaching
  • Copywriting
  • Editing
  • Essays
  • Feature writing
  • Curriculum
  • Ideation
  • News
  • Op-Ed
  • Podcasts (writing)
  • Profiles
  • Publication management
  • Q&A
  • Radio (writing)
  • Radio (reporting)
  • Web copy
  • Blog posts
  • Investigative reporting
  • SEO

notepad Writing Credits

The Washington Post, The Guardian, HuffPost, Women’s Health, Business Insider, Newsweek, Salon, Slate, SUCCESS, WIRED, Next Avenue, Public Seminar, New York City News Service. You can read all my writing here: https://linktr.ee/jacqueline.lekachman.writing

notepad Book Credits

I have proofread and copyedited novels, memoirs, and books of poetry. As a freelance copyeditor, I most recently edited Tolani Akinola’s novel Leave Your Mess at Home (Penguin Random House, April 2026). 

star Awards, Honors, Appointments

Women’s Media Group Scholar (2025-2026).

The Academy for Teachers Early Career Fellowship (2024-2025). 

National Council of Teachers of English (NCTE) English Language Arts Teacher Educator’s (ELATE) Early Career Presenter Scholarship (2023). 

Selected Work

As author, unless indicated otherwise.

I Haven’t Had Sex In Two Years, And It’s The Best Decision I Ever Made

I explore how I experienced sexual compliance the first time I had sex. I spoke to sex therapists and consulted peer-reviewed studies to break down what sexual compliance is, how society conditions women to say yes to sex they don’t want, and how women can foster sexual self-agency. 

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I Thought I Knew My Mom. Then A Polaroid That Made Me Reconsider

A personal essay about the family secrets I discovered that helped me see my mom as a full person –– not just my mother –– and stop pushing her away. 

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My mom's hoarding got in the way of our relationship. As an adult, I understand what led her to that point.

A personal essay about growing up with a mom who is a compulsive hoarder and understanding the past experiences that shaped her.

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I'm close with my aunt, even though she and my mom are estranged. Our relationship has taught me about all 3 of us.

A personal essay exploring fmaily estrangement and how I have come to understand my relationship with my mom and my aunt. 

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Intergenerational Friendships Offer Countless Benefits— Here’s How To Form Your Own

A service piece about the mental health benefits of intergenerational relationships, including tips about how to form your own. 

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Experts Say Family Estrangement Is Often A 'Last Resort,' But Can Be A Necessary And Healthy Option

A service piece about different types of family estrangement, why it happens, when it's healthy, and –– if it serves you –– how to reconnect. 

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My Parents Hated Their Marriage—A Picture Revealed the Truth

A personal essay about understanding the nuances of marriage and learning to respect my parents' decision, even if I would desire something different for myself.

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The two-hour conversation that changed my relationship with my dad

A personal essay about how I cam to understand that my dad's career advice had actually been an expression of love.

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Finding Purpose Through Reinvention

A feature on how Jessica Pfeifer is changing the hospitality design industry to focus on service. 

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How to Use Tech to Prevent Burnout

A service piece about how technology can actually support your mental health and productivity. 

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